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Begin with a Smile
A smile relaxes both you and the audience. It helps to chase away nervousness. Showing a smile in your face hides your nervousness. When you smile, you look more relaxed and confident, and when you are confident, people are more inclined to believe what you say.
Dress Professionally
Appropriate dressing is very important. A well-dressed and groomed appearance can do wonders for that first impression. Keep yourself fit in your dressing. Now is not exactly the time to make a fashion statement, so a tastefully-chosen professional outfit, with suitable accessories like a hand-bag or brief-case should be fine. Make yourself comfortable in the dress.
Create in Your Mind
Much of our time is spent habitually visualizing what may go wrong in a future situation. This may increase your nervousness. It can also give you the results you imagined - or feared - through self-fulfilling predictions. If you think you will fail, then you are making it a whole lot harder for yourself to succeed.
Imagining in an optimistic way is definitely a more useful and pleasant way to spend some time with your imagination. Now, you may think that visualizing this way is just improbable, but seeing in a pessimistic way is just as improbable. Either way, you are imagining what may happen in a possible future scenario. Doing it in a negative way may just feel more realistic because that's what people around you are doing or because it's what you've been doing every day for the last few years.
Here are some handy instructions for you when you have an upcoming meeting / interview: -
Visualize how great the events will unfold - see and hear it - and also how great will you feel at this meeting.
See yourself smiling, being positive, open and having a great time.
See the excellent outcome in your mind. Then release that by visualizing this, it has already happened, that the meeting is over with the desired result.
This is surprisingly effective and will get you into a good and relaxed mood before even stepping into the first, second or twentieth meeting.
Recall natural sceneries and rejoice yourself.
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* Contributed by -
Rizwana M.,
Faculty - Marketing & HR,
M. S. Ramaiah Institute of Technology, Bangalore.
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